thinking back, im grateful for the fact that my parents never really opposed to my non-stop red cross activities since the very beginning. i would say, they are the type who would allow me to get burn in order to learn that something's hot, in that instance, allowing me to fail academically, to learn that probably theres a screw up in my time management that needs to get rectified, or perhaps, there are some things which just need more attention. but of course, there would be consequences to face. nevertheless with guidance from the right sources, it all turned out nothing less than fine.

these days, its not a surprise that parents are disallowing and worst, discouraging their kids on this and that, especially when it comes to red cross activities. the fact is, while building up one's IQ is essential, shouldn't his/her EQ be given equal opportunities to develop? this would include the individual's character, self-esteem, confidence, independence, sense of ruggedness, adventurous spirit, time management, responsibility, and all of it that you just don't get to learn in a classroom. now, aren't those qualities ever more necessary to survive in today's competitive environments than IQ alone? really, how far can parents shelther their kids before we start realising the harsh realities of life and start trying to overcome them...

though red cross is far from a perfect uniform group/cca, it has benefitted me in ways i'd never expect and be able to receive elsewhere. from the proficiencies... planning processes... responsibilities... to experiences, and etc, they have all built me up to have the confidence to take on any obstacle ahead of me today and tomorrow...

and for that, im every bit thankful.